Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Fw: The Power Of Failure

The Power Of Failure

Success doesnt mean avoiding failure. All of us fail. As we travel, we all hit potholes, take wrong
turns, or forget to check the radiator. The only person who avoids failure altogether is the person
who never leaves her driveway. So the real issue is not whether you're going to fail. It's whether
you're going to fail successfully (profiting from your failure). As Nelson Boswell observed, "The
difference between greatness and mediocrity is often how an individual views mistakes." If you want
to continue on the success journey, you need to learn to fail forward.

Unsuccessful people are often so afraid of failure and rejection that they spend their whole lives
avoiding risks or decisions that could lead to failure. They don't realize that success is based on
their ability to fail and continue trying. When you have the right attitude, failure is neither
fatal nor final. In fact, it can be a springboard to success. Leadership expert Warren Bennie
interviewed seventy of the nation's top performers in various fields and found that none of them
viewed their mistakes as failures. When talking about them, they referred to their "learning
experiences", "tuition paid", "detours", and "opportunities for growth."

Successful people dont let failure go to their heads. Instead of dwelling on the negative
consequences of failure, thinking of what might have been and how things haven't worked out, they
focus on the rewards of success: learning from their mistakes and thinking about how whey can
improve themselves and their situations.

.................. Your Road Map For Success (John C Maxwell)


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Saturday, December 19, 2009

The Obstacle in Your Path

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The Obstacle In Your Path
Long ago, in a land not so far away, a King had a large boulder placed upon a roadway. He then hid
himself and watched to see if anyone would remove the huge stone.

To his surprise, many of the King's wealthiest merchants came along and simply chose to walk around
it... Many loudly blamed the King for not keeping the roads clear, but no one even attempted to move
this massive hindrance out of the way.

By and by, a peasant came along carrying a load of vegetables. Approaching the boulder, the peasant
laid down his burden, and tried to move the stone to one side of the road. After much toil, pushing
and straining, he finally succeeded.

As the peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he noticed a purse lying on the road where he had
displaced the immense rock... The purse contained many gold coins, along with a note from the King
indicating that the gold was for the person who removed the boulder from the roadway.

That day the peasant learned what many will never understand—that every obstacle presents an
opportunity to improve one's condition. Indeed, it could be argued that all of us have something in
our way... And, too, all of us have the same choice—accept things as they are, or make a change. Now
that you have been introduced to our business, that choice belongs to you....

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emailed by Carmen Yoong Peet Foong

When Failure Gets You By Heart

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Let's face it. Failure can be very painful - sometimes physically and more often emotionally. Seeing
part of your vision fall flat really hurts. And if people heap ridicule on top of your hurt
feelings,you feel even worse. The first important step in weathering failure is learning to not
personalize it - making sure you know that your failure does not make you a failure. But there's
more to it than that. For many people the pain of failure leads to fear of failure. And they become
like the person who says "I'm too old to cry, but it hurts too much to laugh." That's when many
people get stuck in the fear cycle. And if fear overcomes you, it's almost impossible to fail
forward.

Playwright George Bernard Shaw asserted, "A life spent in making mistakes is not only more honorable
but more useful than a life spent doing nothing." To overcome fear and break the cycle, you have to
be willing to recognize that you will spend much of your life making mistakes. The bad news is that
if you have been inactive for a long time, getting started is hard to do. The good news is that as
soon as you start moving, it gets easier.

If you can take action and keep making mistakes, you gain experience. That's why President Theodore
Roosevelt said, "He who makes no mistakes makes no progress. That experience eventually brings
competence, and you make fewer mistakes. As a result, your fear becomes less paralyzing. But the
whole cycle-breaking process starts with action. You must act your way into feeling, not wait for
positive emotions to carry you forward.

- Failing Forward (John C Maxwell)



Remember the above whenever you fear "rejections" ..

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sent by my dearest mentor..Ms Lu Yong Yong

Friday, December 4, 2009

Success with actions

Success with actions

Success seems to be connected with action. Successful people keep moving.
They make mistakes, but they don't quit.- Conrad Hilton

You'll never plow a field by turning it over in your mind
- Irish proverb

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Feelings...Il Divo




Feelings translation to English

Lyrics to Feelings :
Prima c’eri ora no
Prima amavi ogni mio respiro
Spiegami di come i brividi ora sono
Le spine di un amore alla fine
Mi baciavi ora no
Mi parlavi fino a tarda notte
Tra di noi c’era tutto ora niente
Feelings sto parlando di feelings
Dove si va se non c’e
Feelings
Come si fa per tenerlo con se
Dimmi se dimmi che forse credere si puo
Oh feelings dove si va se non c’e
Eun dolore che oramai
Tu lo sai e per noi una lama gelida
Sorridevo ora piango
Oh feelings sto parlando di feelings
Dove si va se non c’e
Feelings
Come si fa per tenerlo con se
Persi nella scia
Di una storia che va via
Dietro si va se non c’e
Feelings
Come si fa per tenero con se
Dimmi se dimmi che forse credere si puo
Oh feelings dove si va se non c’e
Come si fa per tenerlo con se
Dimmi se dimmi che forse credere si puo
Oh feelings dove si va se non c’e
Dove si va se non c’e
[ Feelings Lyrics on http://www.lyricsmania.com/ ]



Feelings Il Divo translation
Artist: Il Divo
Album: Il Divo
Title: Feelings
Translated Title: Feelings

Once you were here
once you loved each breath of mine
tell me, what about your shivers right now?
the thorns of a love towards the end
once you kissed me, now not
once you talked with me late at night
there was everything between us
now there is nothing
feelings, I am talking about feelings
where do we go if there ain't feelings?
how can we take them with us?
tell me if we can believe it
oh feelings, we won't find them
it's a pain that by now is a cold blame
once I used to smile, now I cry
feelings, I am talking about feelings
where do we go if there ain't feelings?
how can we take them with us?
lost in the trail of a story that is over
feelings, how can we take them with us?
tell me if we can believe it
feelings, where do we go if there ain't feelings?
how can we take them with us?
tell me if we can believe it
feelings, where do we go if there ain't feelings?
where do we go if there ain't feelings?

Il Divo Lyrics

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Selembut doa dalam hati kau mengetahui

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Aku mohon ampunilah aku

Aku bersujud
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Hanyalah padamu
Ya tuhanku

Aku memohon
Keringanan hati
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Saturday, November 14, 2009

Thursday, September 17, 2009

You Came To Me

by Sami Yusuf
You came to me in that hour of need
When I was so lost, so lonely
You came to me took my breath away
Showed me the right way, the way to lead
You filled my heart with love
Showed me the light above
Now all I want Is to be with you
You are my One True love
Taught me to never judge
Now all I want Is to be with you
You came to me in a time of despair
I called on you, you were there
Without You what would my life mean?
To not know the unseen, the worlds between
For you I’d sacrifice
For you I’d give my life
Anything, just to be with you
I feel so lost at times
By all the hurt and lies
Now all I want Is to be with you
Showed right from wrong
Taught me to be strong
Need you more than ever
Ya Rasul ALLAH
You came to me
In that hour of need
Need you more than ever
Ya Rasul ALLAH
You filled my heart with love
Showed me the light above
Now all I want is to be with you
You are my One True love
Taught me to never judge
Now all I want Is to be with you

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Born To Try



"Born To Try"
by Delta Goodrem
Doing everything that I believe in
Going by the rules that I've been taught
More understanding of what's around me
And protected from the walls of love
All that you see is me
And all I truly believe
That I was born to try
I've learned to love
Be understanding
And believe in life
But you've got to make choices
Be wrong or right
Sometimes you've got to sacrifice the things you like
But I was born to try
No point in talking what you should have been
And regretting the things that went on
Life's full of mistakes, destinies and fate
Remove the clouds look at the bigger picture
And all that you see is me
And all I truly believe
That I was born to try
I've learned to love
Be understanding
And believe in life
But you've got to make choices
Be wrong or right
Sometimes you've got to sacrifice the things you like
But I was born to try
All that you see is me
All I truly believe
All that you see is me
And all I truly believe
That I was born to try
I've learned to love
Be understanding
And believe in life
But you've got to make choices
Be wrong or right
Sometimes you've got to sacrifice the things you like
But I was born to try
But you've got to make choices
Be wrong or right
Sometimes you've got to sacrifice the things you like
But I was born to try

Thursday, August 20, 2009

Doa TemanKu

Mengapa dicari secantik Balqis, andai diri tidak sehebat Sulaiman..
Mengapa mengharap teman setampan Yusof jika kasih tidak setulus Zulaikha..
Mengapa mengharap teman seteguh Ibrahim andai diri tidak sehebat Siti Hajar..
Mengapa didambakan teman sehidup yang sempurna Muhammad jika ada keburukan pada diri..
Bimbinglah dirinya dan terimalah kekurangan itu sebagai keunikan..
Carilah kebaikan itu pada dirinya.
Bersyukurlah kerana dipertemukan dengannya dan berdoalah dia milikmu

Cholesterol: The Truth


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Written by Anand V
Wednesday, 19 August 2009 01:31

What is cholesterol?
Cholesterol is a fat soluble substance that is manufactured by the liver, and is also derived from one’s diet.
Plant based foods contain no cholesterol at all. It is only found in animal products. Despite its reputation, cholesterol is essential for health; it is needed for healthy cell membranes and is a precursor to the natural steroid hormones, including testosterone, progesterone and oestrogen.

Cholesterol is transported via the bloodstream from the liver to the cells by lipoproteins. Low-density lipoproteins (LDLs), carry cholesterol to the cells.
High-density lipoproteins (HDLs), carry the cholesterol from the cells back to the liver so that it can be eliminated or reused.

The reason why LDLs are called bad cholesterol and HDLs are called good cholesterol is because if there is too much LDL or not enough HDL, cholesterol can build up in the body and be deposited on the artery walls. This can then contribute to many diseases of the cardio-vascular system. There might not be any symptoms of high cholesterol but related disorders include, obesity, atherosclerosis, arteriosclerosis, high blood pressure, heart attacks, strokes and gallstones.

When cholesterol levels are tested, results are normally given for total cholesterol as well as LDL, HDL and triglycerides (blood fats). Total cholesterol levels should not be more than 5mmol/l.LDL cholesterol levels should be no more than 3mmol/l while HDL cholesterol should be above 1mmol/l.

Causes

The cholesterol we get from food accounts for only about 20% of our total cholesterol. The remainder is made in the liver. For vegans, 100% of their cholesterol will be made by the liver. So, while it is advisable not to eat too many high-cholesterol foods, it is more important to avoid foods that will
increase the liver’s production of cholesterol.

These are saturated fats, mainly from red meat and dairy products, sugar, alcohol and refined carbohydrates, i.e. white rice, white bread, white flour (pizza, pasta, cakes, biscuits, etc).

What to Do

The aim is to normalize the balance between LDL and HDL cholesterol and reduce the oxidation of cholesterol. If you are being treated with any medication, consult your GP. There is no reason why they should stop you from going on a healthier diet, especially if it benefits you. The majority of people who follow the suggested dietary changes do not need their medication at all, as their cholesterol levels will have normalized.

Eat / Drink
 Fibre: is needed to remove excess cholesterol from the body. Good sources include whole
grains, fruit, vegetables, black-eye peas and pulses (chickpeas, lentils, etc)
 Apples: contain pectin, a fibre that can help to lower cholesterol. The old adage is true in the
case of cholesterol, “An apple a day keeps the doctor away.”
 Olive oil, garlic, onions, apples, fish, artichokes, beetroot, carrots, oats and lentils, all have
proven cholesterol-lowering properties.
 Walnuts and, or almonds, have excellent sources of cholesterol-lowering nutrients. Soak
almonds overnight for easy digestion.
 Fresh fruit and vegetables. These contain antioxidants needed to repair artery and blood-vessel
walls. Aim to eat a spectrum of colours as this will give you wide-ranging protection.
 Complex carbohydrates found in broewn rice, millet, buckwheat, oats, quinoa and barley.
 Pecans can help to reduce bad (LDL) cholesterol and are high in antioxidants.
 Essential fats found in oily fish (tuna, salmon, sardines, etc), raw nuts, seeds and cold-pressed
oils are all needed for healthy circulation.
Mono-saturated fats found in olive oil, olives, avocados, have been shown to lower blood cholesterol
levels.
 Whole soya beans which contain plant sterols have been shown to inhibit absorption of dietary
cholesterol. Go for organic, non-GM soy.

Avoid
 Margarines, heated fats, junk food, processed food, palm oil and fried food. These can all
increase the total cholesterol and negatively affect cardio-vascular health.
 Refined carbohydrates. Sugar, white, flour, white bread, white rice and white pasta, sodium
chloride (white table salt).
 Fatty meats (foie gras in one of the worst), processed meats (sausages, deli meats, corned
beef, bacon), dairy products.
 Alcohol, coffee and fizzy drinks.
Herbs & Supplements
 Drink fenugreek seed tea as this can reduce cholesterol levels and aid fat metabolism.
 Sprinkle lecithin granules on your food as it also aids in fat metabolism and is a source of
essential fats.
 Include turmeric, ginger and cayenne pepper in your diet. Turmeric aids liver function and
ginger and cayenne pepper are good for the circulation.
 B vitamin supplements are important for controlling cholesterol levels and fat metabolism.
Look for those with choline and inositol (both also part of B vitamin family).
 Vitamin C with bioflavinoids can help to lower cholesterol and repair damaged artery walls.
 Fish oils contain fats that are important for blood circulation and heart health. Do not take if
you are on blood-thinning medication.
 Vitamin E, taken daily, can help to repair damaged artery wall and prevent oxidation of
cholesterol. Do not take if you are on blood-thinning medication likeWarfarin.
 Supplements with probiotics, like acidophilus are important for the metabolism of cholesterol
in the bowel and can help to lower cholesterol.

Extra tips
 Daily moderate exercise can improve heart function, lower blood pressure and cholesterol, and
reduce weight. Start with a brisk 20-minute walk everyday and build up gradually.
 Learn to relax. Stress is a major cause of high cholesterol and heart disease generally. Try and
review your daily life to eliminate and avoid causes of stress in your life or try and alter how you
respond to them. Stop worrying about the past and future and just live in the present, that is all
you can influence. Take some time out each day to relax, even a 10-minute nap each day, does
wonders.
 Meditation, yoga, tai-chi and breathing exercises are all tried and tested methods of relaxation.
Just having a warm bath with lavender oil in the evening, is a good way to wind down.

Something to share

My father had high blood pressure and high cholesterol levels from eating too much saturated fat and
drinking too much alcohol over the years.
I made some suggestions on changing his diet rather than relying on prescribed medication
indefinitely and this is what he did.

He had organic porridge oats made with filtered water (you can also use oat milk) and top with fresh
strawberries, bananas, raspberries or even frozen unsweetened fruit. Add a heaped teaspoon of
ground flaxseed (whole flaxseed does not digest).

He increased his intake of EFA’s (Essential Fatty Acids) from oily fish and avocado. He also took a very
high dose of Omega Oils 3000mg-5000mg daily

He also had huge, fresh green salads with mung (green) beans, lentils or chickpeas and alfalfa or
broccoli and radish sprouts and his cholesterol has dropped drastically and he is able to live his life
without prescription medication. The drop in cholesterol does not happen overnight and will take
some time, give yourself 6 months to a year to see improvement unless you are very determined and
eat well for every meal, everyday. Some people have a noticeable drop in these levels after 2 months
Drink one 8oz glass of fresh celery juice twice a week, as this also has a positive effect on high blood
pressure and cholesterol. Cut out all table salt (sodium chloride). Celery already has natural sodium
and you won’t need more.


Tuesday, August 4, 2009

Not me, Not I by Delta Goodrem



"Not Me, Not I"

You mixed me up for someone
Who'd fall apart without you
Yeah you broke my heart for the first time
But I'll get over that too
It's hard to find the reasons
Who can see the rhyme?
I guess we were seasons out of time
I guess you didn't know me

[Chorus:]
If you think love is blind?
That I wouldn't see the flaws between the lines
Surprise, and I caught you out
On every single time that you lied
Did you think that every time I see you I would cry
No not me, not I, not I, no not me, not I

The story goes on without you
And there's got to be another ending
But yeah you broke my heart it won't be the last time
But I'll get over them too
As a new door opens we close the ones behind
And if you search your soul I know you'll find
You never really knew me

[Chorus]

All you said to me
All you promised me
All the mystery never did believe
No I never cry no I never not me not I

If you think love is blind
That I wouldn't see the flaws between the lines
Surprise, and I caught you out
On every single time that you lied
Did you think that every time I see you I would cry
No not I, I won't cry
No not me, not I, not I,
Not I
No not me, not I

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Mission

“ Let there arise out of you a group of people inviting to all that is good, enjoining what is Ma'rouf (right)
and forbidding what is Munkar (wrong). And it is they who are the successful. "
(Surah Ali Imran:104)

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

From my dear Madihah....

TAKE A CHANCE
Always take a CHANCE.

The end result may not always be what you hoped for but that's fine... At least, you will never go through life wondering "What if... and "If only...."
Source Unknown

Friday, July 17, 2009

Maybe Tomorrow ... The present ...seize it :)

  • Westlife - Maybe Tomorrow


  • [shane:]

  • Cant Believe Its Over
  • That You're Leaving
  • Weren't We Meant To Be?

  • Should've Sensed The Danger
  • Read The Warnings
  • Right There In Front Of Me

  • Just Stop
  • Lets Start It Over
  • Couldn't I Get One More Try?

  • [all:]

  • Maybe Tomorrow You'll Say That You're Mine
  • You'll Realize, I Could Change
  • I'm Gonna Show You I'm In It For Life
  • I'll Get You Back Someday
  • Maybe Tomorrow

  • [shane:]

  • I Forgot To Be There
  • I Was Selfish
  • I Can See That Now

  • [mark:]

  • I Should've Got To Known You
  • Should've Held You
  • When Your Tears Fell Down

  • Just Stop
  • Don't Make Me Beg You
  • Tell Me That You'll Stay The Night

  • [all:]

  • Maybe Tomorrow You'll Say That You're Mine
  • You'll Realize, I Could Change
  • I'm Gonna Show You I'm In It For Life
  • I'll Get You Back Someday
  • I Will Find A Way

  • [nicky:]

  • Wait A Minute
  • Just Hear Me Out
  • This Time I Promise, I'll Put You First

  • [shane:]

  • Turn Around Now
  • Your Heart Can't Let You Walk Away
  • I'll Do What It Takes

  • [all:]

  • Maybe Tomorrow You'll Say That You're Mine
  • You'll Realize (realize), I Could Change (i Can Change)
  • I'm Gonna Show You I'm In It For Life
  • I'll Get You Back Someday
  • Maybe Tomorrow

  • [kian:]

  • There's So Much I Wanna Say Now
  • I Just Wanna Make A Life With You (don't Walk Away)
  • There's So Much I Wanna Do Now
  • I Just Wanna Make Love To You

  • [shane:]

  • Maybe Tomorrow
  • Maybe Tomorrow
  • Thursday, July 16, 2009

    Agree to disagree =)

    Today I had a discussion with my colleagues during lunch and our conversation landed on one issue.."MPP buat programme syok sendiri".. It did strike something inside me.

    I was one of the members of Majlis Perwakilan Pelajar back then when I was in university. Being part of the MPP family was one of the fondest moments in my life as I have seen how people grow their inner strength which started from limiting belief of "I can't do it".

    The good old days where as MPP we would feel defensive when some comments we get are not "constructive" - leading to internally damaging to the confidents of the team. How we glued ourselves to face the challenges was tremendous and only those who dared to be part of this so called "orang tengah antara pelajar dan universiti" have built something out of the experience.

    As I recalled our YDP (Yang Di-Pertua) always reminded us that we can never satisfy everyone's request, we should not be in our comfort zone doing what ordinary people would do - take it all as fate imposed unto you.

    I became what I am today from growing myself from strength to strength and always believing that we are all subject to CHANGE. We may like it or NOT, but it will surely hit us now and then.
    As I look around the people and issues happening around me, none fail to help in reflecting of the PRESENT moment..as it is not a given right but a GIFT =)


    Wednesday, May 13, 2009

    The Mayonnaise Jar

    The Mayonnaise Jar
    by Mary Lynn Plaisance


    When things in your life seem, Almost too much to handle,When 24 Hours in a day is not enough,Remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee.

    A professor stood before his philosophy class And had some items in front of him.When the class began, wordlessly, He picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar And proceeded to fill it with golf balls.
    He then asked the students, If the jar was full. They agreed that it was.The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open Areas between the golf balls.

    He then asked The students again If the jar was full.. They agreed it was.

    The professor next picked up a box of sand And poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded With an unanimous 'yes.'The professor then produced Two cups of coffee from under the table And poured the entire contents Into the jar, effectively Filling the Empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

    'Now,' said the professor, As the laughter subsided, 'I want you to recognize that This jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things - family, children, health, Friends, and Favorite passions - Things that if everything else was lost And only they remained, Your life would still be full.

    The pebbles are the other things that matter Like your job, house, and car.The sand is everything else --The small stuff.

    'If you put the sand into the jar first,' He continued,'there is no room for The pebbles or the golf balls.The same goes for life.

    If you spend all your time And energy on the small stuff, You will never have room for The things that are Important to you.

    So...

    Pay attention to the things That are critical to your happiness. Play With your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your partner out to dinner.

    There will always be time To clean the house and fix the disposal.

    'Take care of the golf balls first --The things that really matter.Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.'

    One of the students raised her hand And inquired what the coffee represented.

    The professor smiled. 'I'm glad you asked'. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem,
    there's always room for A couple of cups of coffee with a friend.'



    Thank you. Mary Lynn Plaisance

    Sunday, April 5, 2009

    Homecoming Universiti Teknikal Malaysia Melaka 2009

    These pictures were taken at Restoran Merbawi, Jasin. Our friend, Azim's father opened this restaurant and the family is running it as a family business. The food was cooked by Azim himself and it is home cooked and tasty. I personally requested that he share his recipe=)



















    Our Campus Tour..